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The Ten-Year Tax Bomb: What Your IRA Looks Like From Your Kids' Side

July 14, 2026

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Eddie and Betty's Conversation

Betty

Welcome back to The American Retirement Advisor. I'm Betty, and Eddie's here with me in the studio today, and Eddie, I have to say, when I read the piece we're discussing today, I actually set it down for a minute just to think about it.

Eddie

Yeah, it's one of those articles that earns that pause. Ian Schaeffer wrote it as part of a week-long series the company put together on inheritance, specifically on what it looks like from the kids' side of the table. And the opening line alone is worth the whole conversation.

Betty

Tell them the opening line.

Eddie

Your IRA statement says nine hundred thousand dollars. Your kids will not inherit nine hundred thousand dollars. And he's very clear: that's not meant to scare you. It's arithmetic. And once you work through the arithmetic, you start to see that most of the difference is optional. That's the word he uses. Optional. You just have to act while you're still here.

Betty

That word stopped me cold. Optional. Because I think most people, when they get their IRA statement and it says nine hundred thousand, they feel like they've done the job. They saved, they were responsible, and that number is what their family gets.

Eddie

Right, and that assumption is exactly where the gap opens up. Because what the statement never shows you is what happens to those dollars the moment they move from your account to your kids'. The tax picture changes entirely, and it changed more dramatically than most families realize back in 2019.

Betty

So let's start there, because this is where Ian Schaeffer really sets the stage for everything else in the article. What happened in 2019?

Eddie

The SECURE Act. For decades before that, an adult child who inherited an IRA could do what was called a stretch. They'd take small withdrawals spread across their own lifetime, let the rest keep growing in the account, and manage the tax hit gradually. That's gone for most people. Since 2020, an adult child who inherits a traditional IRA generally has to empty the entire account within ten years.

Betty

Ten years sounds like a lot of time until you think about the tax bill on the other end.

Eddie

That's where it gets real. And the IRS added another layer under rules that were finalized to take effect in 2025. If the parent had already started taking required minimum distributions before they passed, the kids generally can't just sit back and wait until year ten to take everything in one lump. They have to keep pulling withdrawals along the way. So there's less flexibility than people think even within that ten-year window.

Betty

Now there are some exceptions to this, right? Not everybody inheriting an IRA is on that ten-year clock.

Eddie

There are. The article lists them. A surviving spouse is exempt. A child who's still a minor. Someone who's disabled or chronically ill. And a beneficiary who's within ten years of the original owner's age. But the scenario Ian Schaeffer is really focused on, and the one that applies to most of the families listening right now, is a healthy adult son or daughter inheriting in their fifties. And for them, the ten-year rule is the rule.

Betty

So now we're sitting in that chair. The kid's chair. And I want to really paint this picture, because this is where the article gets uncomfortable in a useful way.

Eddie

Let's paint it. The article uses a really specific example. Let's say your son is fifty-two years old. He's in his peak earning years, making two hundred and thirty thousand dollars. You leave him a nine hundred thousand dollar IRA, and the ten-year rule means he's generally pulling out ninety thousand dollars a year to drain it over that decade.

Betty

And those ninety thousand dollars don't just show up as a separate thing. They stack on top of what he's already earning.

Eddie

That's it. Every dollar that comes out of a traditional IRA is ordinary income in the year it comes out. So he's got two hundred and thirty thousand from his job, and now ninety thousand on top of that, and the tax code looks at all of it together. The article points out that for a single filer in 2026, the thirty-five percent bracket kicks in at two hundred fifty-six thousand two hundred and twenty-five dollars. So the top slice of that inheritance money, it's getting taxed at thirty-two and thirty-five cents on the dollar.

Betty

Versus what the parent paid when they were saving it.

Eddie

And this is the comparison that really lands. Ian Schaeffer writes that a married couple in retirement can have up to two hundred and eleven thousand four hundred dollars of taxable income in 2026 and still be in the twenty-two percent bracket. So the parent saved at twenty-two, maybe twenty-four percent during their working life, and now those same dollars are being withdrawn at their kid's rate in their kid's peak earning decade, which might be thirty-two or thirty-five percent.

Betty

It's the same money, in the same tax code, and it costs almost fifty percent more just because of when it comes out and whose income it's layered on top of.

Eddie

The article says the same account, drained in a different decade of life, can surrender a six-figure difference to the same tax code. And that's not a worst-case number. That's just the arithmetic of marginal brackets.

Betty

There's a moment in the article that I keep coming back to. There's a story about an advisor and a widow.

Eddie

Yeah. One of the advisors sat with a widow, and she was looking at a capital gains and premium bill that was north of a hundred and twenty-eight thousand dollars. And the advisor described what earlier planning would have done: it would have shrunk that bill dramatically. And this woman's response was just, that's my kids' inheritance. And she was right. That's exactly what it was.

Betty

And the part that hit me was the sentence right after that. The tax code did not take it because it had to. It took it because nobody moved first.

Eddie

That's the reframe the whole article is built around. These are not taxes that were inevitable. They were taxes that happened because the planning window closed before anyone used it. And the planning window closes when you do.

Betty

Okay, so let's talk about what people are afraid of versus what they should really be focused on, because Ian Schaeffer has a section in here that I think is going to surprise some listeners.

Eddie

The estate tax conversation. And his point is simple: most families are worried about the wrong tax. In 2026, the federal estate tax doesn't even begin until fifteen million dollars per person. For nearly every family listening to this show, the estate tax is a complete non-event. It doesn't touch them.

Betty

But income tax on inherited pre-tax accounts, that's a different story.

Eddie

That's where the real exposure is. And unlike the estate tax, which is pretty binary for most families, the income tax on your kids' inherited IRA withdrawals is something you have an enormous amount of control over. That's the word he uses again. Enormous. You can't control much about the estate tax if you're nowhere near the threshold, but you can do a lot about the income tax picture. If you start while you're here.

Betty

So what does that actually look like? What are the moves?

Eddie

The first one is something Ian Schaeffer calls filling your low brackets on purpose. If you're retired and you're sitting in the twelve or twenty-two percent bracket, which a lot of retirees are, every year is an invitation. You can convert a slice of your traditional IRA to a Roth at your rate, rather than leaving it to be withdrawn at your kids' rate.

Betty

And a Roth IRA passes to your children income-tax free.

Eddie

Right. The ten-year clock still applies, they still have to empty it within ten years, but everything that's been sitting in a Roth can stay invested and come out in year ten with zero income tax due. The article puts it plainly: converting at twenty-two percent to avoid thirty-five percent is not a trick. It's just choosing the cheaper decade.

Betty

I love that framing. You're not doing anything exotic. You're just making a deliberate choice about which decade you'd rather pay the tax.

Eddie

And most people in their sixties or early seventies have the opportunity to make that choice. The question is whether they know to look at it. And a lot of families haven't modeled it. They've never sat down and said, okay, what would it cost us to convert X amount per year at our rate, versus what does it cost our kids to pull it out at their rate? When you run those two numbers next to each other, the case gets pretty clear pretty fast.

Betty

The second move in the article is about checking who inherits what. And this one I don't think many families have thought through.

Eddie

Most people have never thought about this deliberately at all. The article makes this distinction between accounts that are heavy and accounts that are light. Pre-tax dollars are heavy, meaning they carry a tax burden that travels with them into the heir's hands. Roth accounts and after-tax brokerage accounts land differently, more lightly. And the question is: which kid gets which account? What does the charity get if you give?

Betty

Because a charity doesn't pay income tax on an inherited IRA. So if you were planning to leave something to charity anyway, maybe that's where the pre-tax dollars should go, rather than the account that's going to cost your kids the most.

Eddie

The article calls these design decisions. And that's the right word. It's not just who gets what in terms of love or fairness. It's a strategic question about which type of dollar serves each recipient best. Most families have a will or a beneficiary designation that was filled out years ago and has never been looked at through that lens. That's a significant gap.

Betty

The third move is the one that involves life insurance, and I want to make sure we handle this carefully, because I know it's more nuanced.

Eddie

Ian Schaeffer is careful about it too. The idea is this: for some families, it can make sense to use IRA withdrawals during your lifetime to fund permanent life insurance. You're turning dollars that would otherwise be taxable someday, when your kids withdraw them, into an income-tax-free benefit that passes to your heirs.

Betty

And we should say, this is not term insurance we're talking about. Term coverage is designed for something different, protecting income and dependents during the years when people need that protection most. What we're talking about here is permanent coverage, the kind that lasts your whole life and is built specifically for legacy and estate purposes.

Eddie

Right, and that distinction matters enormously. The article itself is clear that this strategy is not right for everyone and the details matter enormously. He doesn't try to explain it in a paragraph, because it can't responsibly be explained in a paragraph. It's a sit-down conversation with an advisor. Not a checkbox, not a form you fill out online.

Betty

If you're curious whether that kind of strategy makes sense for your situation specifically, that's genuinely a question for one of our advisors at American Retirement Advisors. The details of how it works for your age, your health, your account size, all of that has to be worked through individually.

Eddie

And the broader point the article is making isn't about any one of these strategies in isolation. It's that you have options. Real, meaningful options. And every one of them has a deadline that nobody can see, because they all end when you do.

Betty

That line is haunting in the best way. Every one of these strategies ends when you do.

Eddie

And Ian Schaeffer frames it as a strange gift. The person with all the power to defuse the bomb is the one reading the article. It's not the kids. It's not the advisor alone. It's the person who's still here, who still holds the accounts, who still controls the decisions. That's a lot of power. And it's only available for a limited time.

Betty

I keep thinking about that widow with the hundred and twenty-eight thousand dollar bill. She wasn't in an unusual situation. She was in a totally normal situation where the planning just didn't happen in time. And that is the most common version of this story.

Eddie

The families who end up there aren't the ones who made bad choices. They're the ones who didn't realize the window existed. They thought the IRA statement was the inheritance. They didn't know about the ten-year rule change, or they knew about it vaguely but hadn't modeled what it meant for their specific kid in their specific income situation.

Betty

So let's be really concrete for a second. You've got a retired couple, they're in a low bracket, they've got a traditional IRA. What is the first question they should be asking themselves after hearing this conversation?

Eddie

The first question is: what tax bracket are my kids likely to be in when they're pulling this money out? Not my bracket. Their bracket, in their peak earning years, plus the forced withdrawals on top. If there's a meaningful gap between your rate now and their likely rate then, that gap is the cost of doing nothing. And the Roth conversion question, the beneficiary design question, all of it flows from understanding that gap.

Betty

And most people have never run that comparison.

Eddie

Most people haven't, because nobody showed them the kid's chair. That's what Ian Schaeffer is doing in this article. He's saying, just sit down over here for a minute and look at the same account from this side. The view is very different.

Betty

There's something almost generous about that framing, isn't there? Because it's not trying to scare you into action. It's genuinely trying to show you what your kids will experience and pointing out that you can change it.

Eddie

And that the changes are not radical. They're not moving to another country or giving all your money away. They're things like: convert a slice this year while you're in the twenty-two percent bracket. Check whether your beneficiary designations still make sense. Think about whether the account that's going to hurt your kids the most could go somewhere else. These are planning conversations, not dramatic overhauls.

Betty

The article also mentions a program the company built specifically to help families get organized around this. The BeneficiaryBox program. There's a whole section of it, they call it the Blue section, that exists just so your kids aren't guessing at what accounts you have and where. Ian Schaeffer says Thursday's article goes into the full program, so we'll save that conversation for that episode.

Eddie

Because one of the challenges that runs through all of this is that even when families know what they want to do, getting the accounts and the beneficiaries and the documents organized so that the kids can execute when the time comes, that's its own project. And it often doesn't get done. Not because people don't care, but because nobody handed them a structure for it.

Betty

And we'll also be watching for tomorrow's article, which Ian Schaeffer says is about the house, the family home, and why families in states like Arizona and Nevada may have an advantage that most national articles don't cover. That sounds like a genuinely interesting one.

Eddie

It does. Real estate inheritance has its own set of rules and there are some state-level nuances that are worth understanding, especially for families who live in different states than their kids or who own property in multiple places. We'll get into all of that.

Betty

Before we wrap, I want to come back to something you said earlier, because I want listeners to really sit with it. You said these aren't the taxes that are inevitable. These are the taxes that happen when nobody moves first.

Eddie

That's the core of it. The tax code doesn't go after inherited IRAs because it has to. It goes after them because the withdrawals are income, and income gets taxed. But the owner of the IRA, while they're alive, has tools to shift how much of that happens and at whose rate. The window just closes the moment it closes.

Betty

And you can't go back and do a Roth conversion after the fact. You can't redesign the beneficiary structure on behalf of someone who's no longer here to authorize it.

Eddie

It's one of those situations in financial planning where the timing isn't just a detail. The timing is the whole game. Which is why Ian Schaeffer frames the person reading the article as the one with the power. Right now, you have the power. The question is just whether you use it.

Betty

And whether you know you have it.

Eddie

Right. Most people don't know what's in that nine hundred thousand dollar IRA statement that isn't shown. Most people don't know about the SECURE Act change and what it means for their specific kids. They haven't modeled the bracket comparison. And so the planning doesn't happen, not because they don't love their kids, but because nobody sat them down and showed them the arithmetic.

Betty

That is what today's episode was about. Showing you the arithmetic. And if this conversation made you want to go a little deeper, to run those numbers for your own situation, to look at your beneficiary designations with fresh eyes, to ask whether a Roth conversion makes sense for where you are right now, that is the conversation to have with one of our advisors at American Retirement Advisors.

Betty

The planning that protects what you've built for the people you love, it only works while you're here to do it. So don't wait for a better time. This is the time. Thanks for spending it with us today, and we'll see you in the next one.

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