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Inherited IRA Rules, Step-Up in Basis, and What Your Kids Actually Receive When Everything Passes to Them

July 9, 2026

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Eddie and Betty's Conversation

Betty

Welcome back to The American Retirement Advisor. I'm Betty, Eddie's here with me in the studio today, and we are continuing our Widow's Penalty series. We have been walking through this all week, looking at what the tax code and Social Security do to a surviving spouse, and today we are turning to the question that, honestly, is the one that keeps people up at night. What do the kids actually get? And in what shape does it arrive?

Eddie

Yeah, and I want to start right where Ian Schaeffer starts his piece, because he opens with a story that I think illustrates the whole problem better than any statistic could. A widow who found herself holding seven rental properties after her husband passed. Seven rentals. Tenants, taxes, repairs, none of it inside any kind of entity or structure, no plan, no instructions.

Betty

She had just inherited a business she never signed up to run.

Eddie

That is the exact phrase Ian uses, and it is exactly right. And that story is the backdrop for everything we are going to talk about today, because the chaos she walked into was not the result of a husband who did not love her. It was the result of a plan that was never fully built.

Betty

So let's build it, piece by piece. Where do you want to start?

Eddie

Let's start with IRAs because that is the account most families have, and the rules here changed and a lot of people simply have not caught up. When a surviving spouse inherits an IRA, she has options that no other beneficiary gets. She can treat it as her own IRA, roll it into her own, or remain what's called a beneficiary. Three different paths.

Betty

And those paths are not the same. They have different consequences.

Eddie

Very different, and which one is right depends on her age and her income needs at that moment. The wrong default choice can cost real money. So Ian is clear about this: that decision belongs on the first-year checklist, made deliberately, with someone who can actually model the numbers for her specific situation.

Betty

There's something in the article about inaction being a decision too. Can you explain that?

Eddie

Yes, and this is a nuance people miss. The rules can treat a surviving spouse as having elected to own the account based purely on what she does with it. So if she just starts taking money out and does not think carefully about which structure she is operating under, she may have effectively made a choice without knowing it. Even doing nothing is a decision in this context.

Betty

That is unsettling, because grief is not exactly a time when most people are reading IRS guidance carefully.

Eddie

Which is why you want this figured out before you are ever in that situation. Now, the kids face a completely different rulebook than the surviving spouse does, and this is where the SECURE Act changes from 2020 really bite.

Betty

I know we touched on this in the Gap Years series, but walk our listeners through what changed for adult children who inherit an IRA.

Eddie

So before the SECURE Act, a child who inherited an IRA could stretch those withdrawals out over their own lifetime. Spread it over forty, fifty years if they were young. Manageable tax hit each year. Since the SECURE Act, most adult children must empty the inherited IRA within ten years of the owner's death. The stretch is generally gone.

Betty

Ten years sounds like a lot of time until you think about when those ten years land.

Eddie

That is the thing that gets people. When do parents typically pass? Their seventies, their eighties. When are their kids? Their forties, their fifties, sometimes their early sixties. Peak earning years. So you have a child who is already in a high bracket, and now she is receiving forced distributions from an inherited IRA on top of her salary. Ian points out that this can push the inheritance into tax brackets the parents themselves never paid.

Betty

So parents could, by doing nothing, accidentally hand their kids a bigger tax bill than if they had planned.

Eddie

That is the reframe, and Ian makes it really well. When you are deciding whether to do a Roth conversion today, or which accounts to spend down first, those are not just retirement income questions. They are inheritance questions. A parent who pays some tax now at a lower rate may be sparing a child from paying much higher rates inside that compressed ten-year window.

Betty

Are there any exceptions to the ten-year rule? Because I imagine it is not everyone.

Eddie

There are. Minor children qualify for an exception, beneficiaries with disabilities or chronic illness, and beneficiaries who are not more than ten years younger than the person who passed. But for most adult children, the ten-year clock is the planning reality. Those exceptions are important to know about, and the exact mechanics of how each one works are a question I would bring to one of our advisors, because the details matter and I don't want to get them wrong here.

Betty

Okay, let's move to what Ian calls the bright spot of the week, because we need one. This is the community property step-up in basis. And I want to say upfront, this is one of the reasons we talk so specifically about Arizona and Nevada on this show, because this benefit is genuinely different here.

Eddie

It is a real advantage and it is almost invisible in national financial media, because most of those articles are written for common-law states. Here is the underlying rule. When someone inherits an asset, its cost basis generally resets to the fair market value at the date of the owner's death. That is the step-up in basis. So if you inherited stock your parent bought for ten thousand dollars that is now worth a hundred thousand, your basis becomes a hundred thousand and you owe no capital gains tax on that appreciation.

Betty

Right, the gain just disappears from a tax standpoint.

Eddie

Now in most states, when the first spouse dies, only the deceased spouse's half of a jointly owned asset gets that reset. So you pick up a step-up on fifty percent. But Arizona and Nevada are community property states, and under federal rules, when one spouse dies, the entire community asset, both halves, can receive a full step-up in basis. Provided at least half its value is includible in the deceased spouse's estate.

Betty

Ian actually uses a specific IRS example in the article and I want to make sure we get that right.

Eddie

He does. A couple's community property was bought long ago for eighty thousand dollars and was worth one hundred thousand dollars at the first death. The survivor's basis in the whole property becomes one hundred thousand. Both halves stepped up, not just one.

Betty

Now bring that back to our widow with the seven rentals, because this is where it gets real.

Eddie

This is where it gets very real. Decades of appreciation across a rental portfolio, decades of depreciation that would otherwise trigger recapture, all of that can be reset in a single moment if the ownership was structured as community property and the records are clean. Ian's example is a widow in Scottsdale who sells a long-held rental shortly after her husband's death. She may owe dramatically less capital gains tax than her sister in a common-law state in the exact same position.

Betty

So why don't more people know about this?

Eddie

Because the national conversation about step-up in basis assumes a common-law state. Most articles are not written for our market. And Ian makes a point that I think is the practical takeaway here: confirm with your tax professional how your titles are actually held before anyone sells anything. Because if a property is not titled as community property, you might not get both halves stepped up.

Betty

The title. Something that most people have not looked at since they signed papers at a closing table years ago.

Eddie

Sitting in a drawer somewhere. And the fix could be simple, but you have to know to look.

Betty

Let's talk about something that surprises people every time, which is the relationship between a will and a beneficiary designation form. I feel like most people assume the will is the thing that controls everything.

Eddie

Most people do, and it is the single fact that quietly reroutes more inheritances than almost anything else. A will does not control retirement accounts, life insurance, or annuities. Those pass by the beneficiary designation form on file with the institution. Period.

Betty

So a will written last year loses to a form someone filled out in 1994.

Eddie

That is the exact scenario Ian describes. And think about what is on a lot of those old forms. The spouse who just passed. Which means the primary beneficiary is gone, and now the contingent beneficiary line, the backup, is what controls. And that line might be blank. It might name someone who also passed. It might be missing a child entirely.

Betty

And no one ever noticed because no one ever looked.

Eddie

Ian is clear that the first year after a loss is exactly when those forms need review. Not eventually. In that first year. Because whoever is on that contingent line right now is in control of a significant asset.

Betty

There's also the Arizona-specific tool he mentions, the beneficiary deed. Can you explain that for listeners who haven't heard the term?

Eddie

A beneficiary deed in Arizona is a recorded deed that names who receives your real estate automatically at your death, without going through probate. It only takes effect when you die, so you keep full ownership and control during your lifetime, and you can revoke it. It is a way to pass a house directly to the kids, cleanly.

Betty

That sounds almost too straightforward.

Eddie

It can be a great tool. The caution Ian raises is coordination. If you have a trust and you also have a beneficiary deed on the same house, those two documents may give conflicting instructions, and you have created exactly the confusion you were trying to prevent. Every tool in the estate plan has to know what the others are doing.

Betty

Which leads into the refinance story. And I want to spend a real minute here because this one is so easy to have missed.

Eddie

If you refinanced in 2020 or 2021, please pay close attention to this part of the article, because Ian says the advisors find this in file after file. Here is what happened. During those low-rate years, some lenders required that a home be taken out of the family's living trust for the refinance closing. The understanding was always that the house would go back into the trust afterward.

Betty

And then life happened.

Eddie

Life happened. The paperwork to retitle the house back into the trust never got done. So you have a beautifully drafted trust sitting next to a house that is no longer inside it. And when someone passes, that house, the asset the trust was specifically created to protect, goes through probate. Discovered at the worst possible moment.

Betty

How do you find out if this happened to you?

Eddie

Ian says the fix is usually simple, and the check is one phone call. Call whoever holds your trust documents and ask: is the house actually titled in the trust today? Not was it supposed to be. Not was it at some point. Is it today. That is the question.

Betty

I want to pause on how solvable that is. One phone call, while everything is fine, fixes a problem that would otherwise blow up at the worst moment.

Eddie

And that is the theme running through Ian's entire piece. Almost everything he describes is fixable in advance. The rulebook is learnable. The problems arrive when no one looked before the crisis.

Betty

Now let's get to gifting, because I know a lot of our listeners are at a stage where they want to help the kids now. Not someday, now. And I love that Ian doesn't treat that as a problem.

Eddie

He calls it one of the best instincts there is. And the mechanics of gifting are actually pretty generous. In 2026 you can generally give up to nineteen thousand dollars per recipient per year with no tax and no paperwork. If you are a couple, that is thirty-eight thousand per recipient. And for larger gifts, Ian notes that they usually cost nothing in actual tax either; they file a form and count against a lifetime exemption.

Betty

Fifteen million dollars per person under current law, which is a number that surprises people.

Eddie

It is a number that makes the annual gifting rules feel almost beside the point for most families, though the annual exclusion is still a clean way to give without any paperwork at all. But Ian is careful to say that generosity is rarely the error. Sequence is.

Betty

Meaning what you give and when you give it matters as much as how much.

Eddie

Two big mistakes. First, gifting highly appreciated property. If you give the kids a property that has gone up significantly in value, they take your old cost basis. They do not get the step-up. You have handed them your embedded tax problem. If you had held it until death instead, the basis resets and the gain potentially disappears entirely.

Betty

So the most generous thing, financially, might actually be to hold appreciated assets and give them cash instead.

Eddie

That is the practical summary. Cash first, appreciated assets last. Ian puts it exactly that plainly.

Betty

And the second mistake?

Eddie

The calendar. Large gifts made within five years of needing long-term care assistance can collide with Medicaid's lookback rules. So if someone gives away a significant amount of money and then needs care sooner than expected, there can be real consequences. The team at American Retirement Advisors knows the specific timing rules on that far better than I want to guess at here, so if you are thinking about larger gifts and there is any chance long-term care could be in the picture, that is absolutely a conversation to have with an advisor before you write any checks.

Betty

It's not a reason not to give. It's a reason to give in the right order with someone in your corner.

Eddie

Generosity is the goal. Sequence is the craft.

Betty

I want to circle back to something because I think some of our listeners are sitting with a question about life insurance in this whole picture. We have talked a lot about IRAs and real estate and gifting. Where does insurance fit when we're talking about what the kids receive?

Eddie

It depends heavily on where a family is in life. For folks who are younger, with dependents, with a mortgage, term life insurance does a specific job: it replaces income during the years the family would be vulnerable. It's temporary, it's relatively low-cost, and it's designed for that window. But the estate planning jobs we have been describing today, passing wealth to kids, providing liquidity to pay estate taxes, equalizing an inheritance when one child gets the business and another needs something else, those jobs generally require coverage that lasts the whole of your life.

Betty

Because you cannot outlive the need.

Eddie

Right. If the job is to make sure the estate has liquidity when you pass, whenever that is, you cannot have coverage that expires at seventy or seventy-five. These are different tools for different jobs, and treating them as interchangeable is a planning error. The specific products and structures that make sense for a given family are a conversation for an advisor who can look at the whole picture.

Betty

I think what I keep coming back to as we work through Ian Schaeffer's piece is that every single one of these items, the IRA beneficiary form, the house title, the trust, the gifting sequence, every one of them is something that can be addressed today, calmly, without any crisis driving the decision.

Eddie

And Ian closes the article with a line that I think captures the whole series. The widow's penalty is real, but it is a rulebook. And rulebooks can be learned in advance. That framing matters because it shifts the whole conversation from dread to agency. You are not helpless here. You are just not yet informed.

Betty

Let me just quickly recap what we covered today so nobody leaves without the map. IRAs: the surviving spouse has choices no one else gets, and that decision belongs in the first year with professional modeling. Adult children face the ten-year rule under the SECURE Act, which is why Roth conversions and spending order are also inheritance decisions. The community property step-up in basis in Arizona and Nevada is one of the most valuable and most valuable benefits of retiring in this region, check your titles. Beneficiary designation forms override the will, review them, especially the contingent line. If you refinanced in 2020 or 2021, call and confirm your house is still in your trust. And when you give, give cash before appreciated assets, and keep the Medicaid calendar in view.

Eddie

That is the whole list. And none of it is complicated once you know to look for it. The problem is almost never complexity. It's the assumption that somebody already handled it.

Betty

Tomorrow the series closes with what Ian says families need most and have least, an actual playbook for the first ninety days after a loss. What to do, in what order, when the worst week arrives. We will be there for that one.

Betty

If anything we talked about today raised a question, about your beneficiary forms, about how your titles are held, about what your kids would actually receive, please do not let that question sit. Sit down with someone who can look at your specific picture. You can reach the team at American Retirement Advisors at 602-281-3898. They built something called the BeneficiaryBox specifically to hold all of this information in one place your family can actually find when they need it. That number again is 602-281-3898. Thank you for being here with us today, and we will see you tomorrow.

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